Before you start feeling smug and superior and telling yourself you'll *never* settle, give it a chance. I too, was once like you.
A guy friend of mine read this and though it's directed at a female audience, this enlightened friend was able to identify with it and realize some of his own dating mistakes. He found this book's message to be so important, he bought 5 copies to give to his female friends; me being one of them.
And ladies, I learned that "settling" can be a good thing.
Before you ignore this post and go click on your favorite food blog (BACON!), hear me out. Are you single and over the age of 26? Do you have a list of more than 5 things your imaginary "perfect mate" must possess? Maybe your soul mate is imaginary for a reason.
This book can help explain that.
The title is slightly misleading because the book is not advocating just picking a dude up from the grocery store like a carton of eggs and deciding he's "the one." Instead it gives you the reality check your friends are afraid to give you: perfection doesn't exist and if you're waiting for someone who hits all 38 "must have's" on your list, you're not only going to have dust bunnies in your attic, but also in your lady parts.
Don't be "that girl." Read the book.
Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not,
LL
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